Lol! That wasn’t your husband? I’m so sorry for my mistake! I was told by at least two people that it was! How funny. Well, let me amend my statement then, to say that your friend is a very nice guy!
As for Ed, I really cannot comment on your direct experience with him, as I did not see the exchange (I was talking with Aminah at the time). What I can say though, is that my experiences with Ed have always been very positive, and I believe him to be a nice guy. In my opinion, like Uther, Ed can be very loud and flamboyant. But also like Uther, I truly believe that his heart is in the right place. Ed is also a big guy, and something I’ve found while dating Uther, is that big guys can often be very “unaware” of their own space and presence. I’m positive that the last thing Ed meant to do was offend you (and be very sad and horrified to know he had). I’m sure he would appreciate talking with you about this directly, should you wish to resolve it with him. I’d be happy to send you his contact information. Or as you said, it can be left as “water under the bridge” as well. :-)
As an aside, it sounds like we may have very similar career paths. May I ask what you do? I’d love to sit down with you over coffee sometime and share a professional discussion of our similar experiences, if you were interested.
Re: no hard feelings
As for Ed, I really cannot comment on your direct experience with him, as I did not see the exchange (I was talking with Aminah at the time). What I can say though, is that my experiences with Ed have always been very positive, and I believe him to be a nice guy. In my opinion, like Uther, Ed can be very loud and flamboyant. But also like Uther, I truly believe that his heart is in the right place. Ed is also a big guy, and something I’ve found while dating Uther, is that big guys can often be very “unaware” of their own space and presence. I’m positive that the last thing Ed meant to do was offend you (and be very sad and horrified to know he had). I’m sure he would appreciate talking with you about this directly, should you wish to resolve it with him. I’d be happy to send you his contact information. Or as you said, it can be left as “water under the bridge” as well. :-)
As an aside, it sounds like we may have very similar career paths. May I ask what you do? I’d love to sit down with you over coffee sometime and share a professional discussion of our similar experiences, if you were interested.
Cheers,
Kara